Keepin’ the love alive

March 1, 2010 • Susan Iverson  
Filed under Opinion

Valentines Day is that one special day that girls look forward to all year, or at least the cheesy ones who like presents. And you’re probably thinking,  “Oh that’s not me” but all girls like to be spoiled and like presents and like cheesy little things once a year.

There are certain things that girls automatically look forward to no matter what, like birthdays, Christmas, Valentines Day, and the anniversary of the first date. If you forget your woman’s birthday or your guys’s anniversary, fits gunna hit the shan! It’s crucial to remain in sync with priority events as such.

Men, manly ‘ol men… We like flowers, candy, and sweet things that you can get off movies. Text her “I love you”; it’s simple and cute. However, “I love you, you mean everything in this world to me, I can’t imagine going on without you”… CREEPY, you cannot. . .  I repeat can NOT say that stuff if you’re just dating. It’s obsessive and makes us want to pretend we never got that text to begin with!

Which brings me to other issues.

If we ask you, “Honey do I look fat?”

You should always say, “No, Sugar Bear, you look wonderful!”

It’ll make your life much easier J Guys never ever for as long as you live with the female, ask her if she is tired or what her problem is! It makes us angry. You also cannot talk about your ex- girlfriend… way super duper horribly off limits! It makes us want to kick you in the throat.

Speaking of personal issues, guys, I would also suggest not passing gas while on a date because it causes for an awkward situation; you don’t know if you should say something or try to blame it on her or something outside and it would be more awkward if she asked… “Umm did you seriously just do that?”

So just hold it in!

Ladies, I understand we get mad easily and sometimes over stupid stuff, but you can’t blame everything on “that time of the month!” I understand that sometimes you just have to be mad for a while. But you can’t stay mad over something so ridiculously small that you actually forget what you were mad about in the first place. All guys make a few mistakes and so do we, but you can’t keep getting mad and hanging on to all of their imperfections.

Valentines Day is a day to be all lovey-dovey and kiss and smooch with out having someone yell “Get a room

Be sure to keep the love alive even after the day of love has past by keeping these small words of advice in your back pocket.

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